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Easter Contact Tips for Separated Parents

30 March 2026

Easter is traditionally a time for family, celebration, and welcoming the joys of spring.

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For separated or divorced parents, school holidays can quickly become a source of stress, especially when both parents want to spend meaningful time with their children.

Whether this is your first Easter co‑parenting or you’re refining an existing routine, careful planning and an understanding of your legal rights can make all the difference. With the right approach, you can keep the focus where it should be - on your children’s wellbeing.

Here are some key considerations for Easter contact in the UK, including legal arrangements, practical scheduling tips, and what to do if disputes arise.

Understanding Your Legal Position

Before arranging Easter schedules, it’s important to know what legal arrangements are already in place.

Child Arrangements Orders (CAOs)
A CAO sets out:

  • Where your child lives
  • How much time they spend with each parent

Some orders include specific holiday rules, such as:

  • Dividing the Easter break equally between parents
  • Alternating who has the “Easter weekend” each year
  • Fixed handover times at the start and end of the holiday

Other CAOs may simply state “as agreed between the parents,” leaving the details for yearly discussion.

If No Court Order Exists
Parents without a formal order can set their own arrangements. UK law (Children Act 1989) encourages agreements outside of court. Common approaches include:

  • Following the previous year’s pattern
  • Splitting the two‑week break fairly

Remember, informal arrangements are not legally binding unless formalised.

Splitting the Easter Holidays

Easter usually involves a two-week school break plus the four-day bank holiday (Good Friday - Easter Monday), which can be the most contested period. Common arrangements include:

1. Week-On/Week-Off

  • Parent A: first week
  • Parent B: second week
    Minimises handovers
    Guarantees quality time for both parents

2. Alternating Easter Weekend

  • 2026: Parent A has Fri-Mon
  • 2027: Parent B has Fri-Mon
    Ideal for families living further apart

3. Splitting Easter Sunday

  • Parent A: Saturday → Sunday midday
  • Parent B: Sunday midday → Monday evening
    Works best when homes are close together

Check Inset Days
Schools sometimes schedule inset days around the break, which can lead to last-minute disputes. Check the school calendar early to avoid surprises.

Taking Children Abroad During Easter

Many families plan holidays abroad over Easter, but strict legal rules apply:

Consent Is Key
Written consent from anyone with Parental Responsibility is required before travel. Taking a child abroad without permission can be considered child abduction under UK law.

The 28-Day Exception
If your CAO states the child “lives with” you, you may take them abroad for up to 28 days without additional consent. Even then, share:

  • Travel dates
  • Flight and accommodation details
  • Emergency contact information

This transparency helps build trust and smooth co-parenting communication.

Communication Tips to Avoid Conflict

Many disagreements stem from misunderstandings or last-minute changes. To prevent issues:

  • Start planning early: Ideally after February half-term
  • Use co-parenting apps: Tools like OurFamilyWizard, AppClose, and Cozi help coordinate schedules and maintain written records

If Agreement Isn’t Possible

  1. Mediation (MIAM) – Structured support to help negotiate an arrangement
  2. Solicitor AssistanceLegal guidance can resolve disputes without going to court

Keeping Children at the Centre

Both the Family Court and good co-parenting practices prioritise the child’s welfare. Consider:

  • Children’s own wishes and commitments (social, academic, or extracurricular)
  • Maintaining stability while introducing new traditions
  • Encouraging indirect contact (video calls, messages) when a child spends longer periods with one parent

Key Takeaways for Stress-Free Easter Planning

  • Start planning early and communicate clearly
  • Focus on your children’s needs
  • Confirm legal requirements for any travel
  • Consider mediation or legal advice if disputes arise

A proactive, child-focused approach ensures Easter remains a time of joy rather than conflict.

Need guidance on Easter contact arrangements or co-parenting disputes? Our family law team can help you create a fair schedule and resolve conflicts smoothly. Call 01202 294411or contact us today for advice tailored to your family.

 


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